About Kira
Hi, I’m Kira.
I work with people who know, deep down, that they’ve been overriding themselves—especially in relationships.
Saying yes, when they really mean no.
Carrying the emotional load.
Staying when their body is already pulling away.
Confusing emotional chaos for growth. And anxiety with intuition.
I know this pattern, because I lived it.
For the longest time, I didn’t trust my inner signals. I would feel misalignment… and move forward anyway. And every time I did, it reinforced the same cycle of self-abandonment.
What I came to understand is that these patterns aren’t random, and they aren’t your identity—they are conditioned responses that can be seen, understood, and changed through deep subconscious work and emotional clearing.
Now I help people recognize these patterns at their root—so they stop repeating the same dynamics in different forms.
Through my coaching, I guide people back into real self-trust—not as a concept but as something they can feel and act on.
So their choices stop coming from old patterns… and start coming from clarity, stability, and alignment with their heart’s highest truth.
“Working with Kira transformed my relationship with myself. I learned to process my emotions, trust myself, and create healthier relationships without losing who I am. The freedom I’ve experienced is difficult to put into words.”
-SD
This is how it all began…
For most of my life, I thought there was something wrong with me.
No matter what area of life I focused on, I kept repeating the same painful patterns. I ignored my needs. I people-pleased. I struggled to set boundaries. I over-functioned. I searched outside of myself for love, safety, certainty, and validation. I believed that if I just did the right thing, found the right relationship, followed the path someone set out for me, everything would eventually make sense.
But no matter what, the patterns remained, and I became deeply disconnected from myself. Until I realized something—I had been operating in survival, NOT living.
I became obsessed with understanding why I kept repeating the same experiences in relationships—” Why?” I asked myself. That curiosity led me into somatics, trauma-informed coaching, nervous system healing, and parts work. And then… everything changed.
I learned the people-pleasing, emotional shutdown, perfectionism, hyper-independence, overthinking, and lack of boundaries weren’t my personality—they were protective patterns my nervous system had created to help me survive.
Through deep somatic work, I reconnected and reclaimed the younger parts of me. As those parts healed, I realized the problem was never ME. It was how I had learned to abandon myself for love, safety, and acceptance.
As my body released what it had been holding onto, my life became… fulfilling.
For the first time in my life, I experienced the kind of relationships I didn’t think were possible. My friendships became healthier. My family relationships improved. I started standing up for my desires and actually living them. I stepped into my creative power and began competing in poetry competitions and writing a novel. I built a business rooted in purpose instead of proving my worth. And I watched my outer reality begin reflecting the person I was becoming.
I RECLAIMED MY LIFE SO I CAN LIVE.
That’s why I’m so passionate about this work. I help people understand the protective patterns that have been running their lives, heal the wounds beneath those patterns, and reconnect with the version of themselves that existed before survival took over. Over 50 clients have been helped at this point! You can find their testimonials here.
If you’ve spent years overthinking relationships… Feeling abandoned… Losing yourself trying to be loved… missing out on a life you actually desire… I want you to know something. You are not broken. Your nervous system adapted, and it can learn something new.
If you are ready to stop abandoning yourself and start building a FULL life built from self-trust, I’d love to meet you.
Book your free consult below.
Fun Facts About Kira
I have hiked Half-Dome and many other strenuous hikes.
I love to solo-travel. Something about being in the mountains with no one around has really helped me dive into my heart.
I am a single mama of three girls. All of which have been a HUGE help on my healing journey.
I LOVE long road trips! I have taken my children on many 50-hour trips, travelling through deserts, mountains, and plains.
I have published two poetry books and competed in spoken word.
I am a novelist, and hope to have my first novel published within the next year.
I have been a fitness fanatic for over 10 years. I love doing pull-ups!
I adore yoga, but there are many poses I cannot do. Yoga has become more of a healing modality for me.
I have an amazing partner who amplifies my life and inner growth. He acts as a catalyst for deeper healing and loves me in ways I never thought possible.
I am certified in Yoga, Somatics, Intuitive Life-Coaching, Level 2 Reiki, and am continuously evolving my knowledge to serve my clients better.
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